Significance
Significance
Thereisincreasinginternationalemphasisonpopulationanddevelopmentissues,andpeoplearebeginningtorealizethatthisisnotjustapopulationcontrolissue,butalsoincludeshumansurvival,Healthandhappiness,wemuststrivetopromotethewelfareofallpeopletobeimprovedandstrengthened.TheWorldHealthOrganizationhaslongputforwardthegoalofreproductivehealthcareforeveryonein2000,andoneofthemostimportantcontentistheissueofreproductivehealthandsexualhealth.Healthisanindivisiblewhole.Reproductivehealthandsexualhealthinvolvenotonlyonegeneration,butalsothehealthandhappinessoffuturegenerations.The"DecisiononHealthReformandDevelopment"issuedbytheChinesegovernmentonJanuary15,1997stated:"Everyoneenjoyshealthcare,andthecontinuousimprovementofthehealthoftheentirenationisanimportantgoalofsocialistmodernizationandanimprovementinthequalityoflifeofthepeople.Theimportantsymbolofthesocialistspiritualcivilizationisanimportantcontentoftheconstructionofsocialistspiritualcivilizationandanimportantguaranteeforthesustainabledevelopmentoftheeconomyandsociety.Theentirepartyandtheentiresocietymustattachgreatimportancetohealthservicestoprotectandenhancethehealthofthepeople."TherealizationofhealthisinseparablefromEducation,itcanalsobesaidthateducationisanimportantpreventivemeasure,andintegratingeducationinreproductivehealthcareisanimportantmeasuretotreatbothsymptomsandrootcauses.
Necessity
Duetotheemergenceofsomedecadentandbackwardphenomenainsociety,suchas:prostitutionandprostitutionhavebeenrepeatedlycaughtup;sexuallytransmitteddiseaseshaverevived,andtheyhavegrownatanalarmingrateandspreadthroughoutthecountry.Itisspreadingeverywhere,andthenumberofSTDsinsomeplaceshasreached10‰ofthelocalpopulation.ItisestimatedthatthenumberofpeopleinfectedwithHIValoneinthecountryhasreached500,000to1million;thenumberofabortionsover10millionperyearremainshigh,reflectingOutoftheobviouslackofeducationonsexualandreproductivehealth;itisestimatedthatasmanyas80millionto100millionpatientswithsexualdysfunction;thenumberofpeoplewithdisharmonioussexuallifeisevenmore,whichhasbecomearapidincreaseinthedivorcerate.Oneoftheimportantreasonsforthis:therapidincreaseinpre-maritalandextramaritalsexualbehaviors,andmanyteenagersaretroubledbysexualpsychologyandsexualphysiologicaldevelopmentandfeelanxious,whichseriouslyaffectstheirhealthygrowthanddevelopment.
Goodsexualethicsisthefundamentalguaranteeofsexualhealth.Toachievesexualhealth,goodandnoblesexualethicsareindispensable.Therefore,promotingsexeducationhasbecomethefirsttask.Leninsaidthathumanlifeconsistsofthreeparts:materiallife,spirituallifeandsexuallife.Therefore,sexualcivilization,likematerialcivilizationandspiritualcivilization,isalsooneofthehallmarksoftheentiresocialistcivilization.Graspingtheconstructionofsexualcivilizationisnotonlyanurgentandimportanttaskfacingtheentiresociety,butalsoanurgentneedofthemasses.Therefore,promotingcorrectsexeducationhasbecomeatoppriority.
Currently,feudalconsciousness,capitalistdecadentlifestyle,andlowculturalqualityarestillserioushabitualforces.Ontheonehand,theyresistthespreadofsexualscienceknowledge,andontheotherhandtheycondonetheproliferationofpornography.Regardingsexculture,peoplecanneithersuppressitcompletelynorallowittogrowarbitrarilylikeweeds.Therefore,providingpeoplewithaccurate,scientific,andpracticalsexualinformationandsexualhealthservicesarealsonecessarytodefendsexualmorality,andthetwoarecomplementary.
Universaleducation
The"DecisionoftheCentralCommitteeoftheCommunistPartyofChinaandtheStateCouncilonHealthReformandDevelopment"clearlystates:"Healtheducationisanimportantpartofcitizenqualityeducation.Thepeople’shealthawarenessandself-healthcareability,...Educateandguidethepeopletobreaksuperstition,abandonbadhabits,...Developgoodhygienehabitsandcivilizedlifestyles,andcultivatehealthymentalquality.”Thisprincipleisobviouslyalsosex.Guidelinesforhealtheducation.
Thepurposeofsexeducationisnothingmorethanthree:
Oneistoanswerwhatissex?
Second,whatistheanswertosex?
Thethirdistotellpeoplehowtogethealthysexorwhatishealthysex.
Encourageandhelppeoplehaveself-confidenceinsexualrelations
Ingeneral,sexeducationistoencourageandhelppeoplehaveself-confidenceinsexualrelations.Sexeducationisnotonlytoreducetheaccidentalpregnancyrateandtheincidenceofsexuallytransmitteddiseases,butmoreimportantly,loveeducation,tomakepeopleunderstandthat"goodinterpersonalandsexualrelationscanimprovehealthandhappiness"andenhanceeveryoneSelf-esteemandimprovethesenseofresponsibilityforsociallifeandsocialcustoms.
Sexeducationshouldstartfromthebaby,anditwillrunthroughtheentirelifeofaperson.Sexeducationistheembodimentofhumanprogress.Itisaprocessofbreakingandfightingagainstoldideasandconcepts.Onlybyconstantlyimpactinganddestroyingtheoldandbackwardthingscanwecontinuetomakeprogressandadvance.Sexualethicseducationemphasizesrespectforothers.Everyonehasdifferentvaluesanddifferentpursuits.Everyonehastherighttopursuehappiness,butthepremiseisnottodamagethefreedomandhappinessofothers.Sexeducationistoenableeveryonetoenjoyresponsiblesex,safesex,pleasantsex,andhappysex.
Adolescentsexknowledgeeducation
Adolescentsinadolescencehaverelativelypoorknowledgeofsex.Mostteachersandparentsareashamedorembarrassedtotalktotheirchildrenaboutthetopicof"sex",whichwilldriveyoungpeopletoobtainunhealthysexualknowledgethroughvideo,theInternet,pornographiccartoonsandotherchannels,andmisleadyoungpeopleintheircorrectunderstandingofsexualknowledge.
Accesstosexualknowledgeforminors
Thetopicof"sex"hasneverstoppedinourcountry.Withthedevelopmentofeconomyandsocialprogress,Chinesepeoplehavechangedfromtalkingabout"sex"to"Xi'anSexFair"asthefocusofattention.Peoplehavegonefrom"sexualembarrassment"to"sexualproliferation",especiallyminors.Butwheredominorsobtainsexualknowledge?
Accordingtothesurvey,themostimportantchannelforobtainingsexualknowledgethrough"artistic,filmandtelevisionworks,comics,andinformationontheInternet"hasbecome;Thencamepornographicdiscs.ThisshowsthatmostminorsobtainsexualknowledgefromAV.Somenetizenssaid,"WithoutJapan'sAV(adultvideo),China'ssexeducationwillbeblank."Andthisviewhasbeenrecognizedbymostnetizens.
Relatedknowledge
1Manypeoplewillhaveaslightcurvatureoftheirpeniswhentheyhaveanerection,andthedegreevariesfrompersontoperson.Somewillbendupwardsanddownwards,andsomewillbebiased.Leftorright.
2ThepenisofanOrientalisabout10to15cm,andsexualperformanceisnotrelatedtothelengthofthepenis.
3Spermproductiontakesabout90to116days,anditcansurviveinthevaginaorcervixfor72hours.
4Thepenisismostlycausedbythecavernousbody,whichiscoveredwithalayerofepidermis.Whensexuallyexcited,thecavernousbodywillbecomecongested,makingthepenishard,longer,andthickerforsexualintercourse.Thisistheso-called"erection".
5Donotputrubberbandsorbandsonthepenisinordertoprolongthetimeoferectionorpreventhimfromejaculating.Thiswillmostlikelycausebloodtocoagulateandcausethetissuesofthepenistodie.
6Ifthepenisisviolentlyhit,itwillbreak,anditwillmakealoudnoise.Thissituationmustbesenttothehospitalassoonaspossible.
7Whenawoman'svaginaisnotlubricatedenoughbutforcedintoit,andtheactionistoointense,itwillnotonlymakethewomanfeelpain,butalsomaycauseyourforeskinlaceration.Althoughmostofthemhealontheirown,seriouswoundsalsoneedtobesutured.
8Whenthetesticlesbecomeinflamed,whiteoryellowdischargefromthepenis,painanddiscomfortwhenurinating,orwhentheanusfeelsirritation,thereisasecretionflowout,youshouldstopsexualactivityimmediately,becausetheabovesymptomsareallItcanshowthathemayhaveavenerealdiseaseandshouldseeadoctorimmediately.
9Thereisaslidingskinoutsidethepenis,calledtheprepuce.Thefunctionoftheforeskinistoprotecttheglans,andplayabufferingroleduringsexualintercourse,whichcanrelievepainduringsexualintercourse.Theforeskinofthevastmajorityofmenistoolong,thisisnotasymptom.Butitwillcauseaseriesofproblemsbecauseofthehiddendirt,butaslongasyoupayattentiontohygieneandnocomplications,youdon'tneedtotaketreatmentmeasures.
Lackofknowledge
Oneisignorance
Theconceptandcontentofsexualknowledgeareunfamiliartomanypeople.Sexhasbecomeverymysterious.Manypeoplearenotclearaboutwhatsexisandwhyitisnecessarytohavesex,howtocultivatesexualawareness,suchasgenderawareness,howtoprotecttheirsexualorgans,toperformsanitarycareoftheirownsexualorgans,andhowtotreatnocturnalemissionandmenstruation.Idon’tknowhowtodealwithsexualmasturbation,Idon’tknowhowchildbearingis,Idon’tknowwhatkindoflearning,lifestyleandbehaviorwillaffectmysexualability,Idon’tknowhowtogetalongwiththeoppositesexcorrectly,evenifIgetmarried,Ialsodon’tknowhowtoliveagoodhusbandandwifesexlife,etc.Thelowertheeducationlevel,thepoorertheknowledgeofsex.Eveneducatedpeople,suchasthosewithahighdegreeofeducation,don’tnecessarilyknowhowmuchknowledgeaboutsex,andtheyareeven“sex-blind”.
Thesecondisfearlessness
Becauseoflackofknowledgeofsexandlackofunderstanding,theconceptofsexsafetyisextremelyweak.Don’tunderstandsex,don’tunderstandsex,don’tknowhowtogetpregnant,don’tknowwhatkindofsexualbehaviorcaneasilyleadtodiseases,andlackadequatevigilanceagainstsexualdiseases.Especiallyinruralareas,manypeoplehavenoknowledgeofsexualhygieneanddonotknowhowtoeffectivelyprotectthemselvesandeachotherduringsexualrelationsandsexuallife.Idon’tknowscientificcontraception,andIdon’tunderstandhowthesexlifebetweenhusbandandwifecanbeharmonious.Theydon'tknowhowtobeafraid,notbecauseoftheirguts,butbecausetheydon'tunderstandwhatkindof"results"sexcanbring.Thenegativeeffectsofthisso-called"fearlessness"cansometimesbeserious.
Thethirdisboring
Somesurveystatisticsshowthatmanycouplesaredissatisfiedwiththestateoftheirsexualrelations,feelthatthequalityoftheirsexuallifeisnothigh,andthereisabiggapbetweentheirowndesires,Begantolose"sexualinterest"insex.
KnowledgeofGirls
Forgirlswhoarepregnant,someareaccidentalinjuriesthatcannotbeavoided,andsomearemistakescausedbytheirownignorance.Atthistime,reprimandingisnotthebestwaytorepairinjuredyouth.Howtoproperlyhandletheterminationofpregnancyandminimizethedamageisthemosturgenttask.
One.Signsofpregnancy
Menstruationstops.Maybegirlswhohavejuststartedmenarchehaveirregularmenstruation,butifthemenstrualperiodisregular,theydonotcomebythedaytheyshouldcome,andtheyhavehadsexualcontactwiththeoppositesex,havesexualintercourseortheotherparty’sejaculationandspermcansurviveoutsidethebody2to3Youshouldbevigilantwhenyouareyoung.
Secondly,thebreastsbecomelargerinashorttime,andlatertherewillbefrequenturinationandincreasedbodytemperature.
Symptomssuchasnausea,vomiting,andoilinessmaynotappearuntilthreetofivemonthsafterpregnancy.
Second,inspectionmethod
Ifyouhaveanydoubts,don’tbeafraid,youcantestityourselffirst.Useearlypregnancyteststripsandbuythematregularpharmacies.Itisaurinetest,sothereisnoneedtoworryaboutit.Theaccuracyrateoftheteststripisrelativelyhigh,butitisnotfoolproof,soitneedstogotothehospitalforfurthertesting.TheexaminationatthehospitalisalsoaurinesampletestandaB-typeultrasound.Don'tworry,therewillbenoharm.
Three,mentalpreparation
Relax,thenrelax.Don'tpanic,don'tbeafraid.Thisisnotadisease.Pregnancyisactuallyaphysiologicalphenomenon,butithappenedataninappropriatetime.Therefore,themedicaltermyouhavetochooseiscalledterminationofpregnancy.Inourwords,it'scalledabortion.
Firstofall,youmustbecalm.Don'thideyourselfandbesad.Seekhelpfromthepeopleyoutrustmost.Itisrecommendedtofindamother.Althoughthismatterwillmakehersad,hermotheristhemostreliablefriend.First,shelovesyouthemost.Secondly,sheisanadultandknowshowtodealwithitcorrectlytominimizethedamage.
Secondly,bebrave.Nomatterwhat,thisincidenthashappened.Ifitisanaccidentalinjury,itisjustasmallsetbackinyourlife.Youshouldfaceitbravelyandpositively.Theroadaheadisstilllong,andtherearemanybeautifulthings.Thingsarewaitingforyou,aren’tthey?
Four.Preparationformiscarriage
Ifyouhaven’thadaB-ultrasoundexaminationbefore,thentheexaminationisnecessary.Mainlytodeterminewhetheritisanormalpregnancy,thatis,intrauterinepregnancy.Ifitisanectopicpregnancy,theusualabortionmethodcannotbeused,andhospitalizationisrequired.Althoughthechanceofectopicpregnancyisverysmall.
Therearetwomethodsofabortionadoptedbyhospitalsinmycountry,medicalabortionandartificialabortion.Medicalabortionissuitabletobedonewithin7weeksofpregnancy,andartificialabortionissuitabletobedonewithin10weeks.Ifitisdeterminedtobeanormalpregnancy,itisnecessarytostartpreparationsformiscarriage.Firstofall,relax.Becauseatthistime,mentalhealthandphysicalhealthareequallyimportant.Alsopayattentiontokeepwarm,nottocatchacold,ifyouhavecoldsymptoms,seekmedicaladviceintime,donotabortduringthecold.Thedaybeforegoingtothehospital,takeagoodhotbathandpreparecleanreplacementunderwear,sanitarynapkins,etc.
Five.Afterabortion
Beinbedforaweekorso,withinamonth,avoidrawandspicyfoods,avoidcoldwater,itisbesttowashlessornotAfterwashingyourhair,usethewarmairofahairdryertodryyourhair.Can'ttakeabath.Eatnutritiousfoods.Itisveryimportanttokeepintouchwiththedoctor.Ifsomethingabnormaloccurs,reportittothedoctorimmediately.Keepapeacefulmind.
Six.Takeprecautionsinthefirstplace
Takeemergencycontraceptiveswithin72hoursaftersextopreventpregnancy.Butbirthcontrolpillscanalsobringcertainharmtothebody,suchasendocrinedisordersandpoormood.However,theaboveareallpost-mortems,andareawaytoreducedamageafterpregnancy.Howtoprotectyourbodyisthebestpolicy.Therearetwomainreasonsformiddleschoolstudentstobecomepregnant,oneisexternalinjury,andtheotheristheirownnegligence.Toavoidexternalinjuries,wemustbecarefulnottowalkaloneatnight.Ifyouaregoinghomebycaralone,itisbesttoaskyourfamilytopickyouupattheplacewhereyougotoffordownstairs.Ifyoufindasuspiciouspersonstalking,gotoacrowdedplaceandaskforhelp.Notbeingalonewithanunfamiliaroppositesex.
Understandingthecurrentsituation
China’ssexeducationisstillverybackward.Manypeoplewanttoknowprofessionalsexknowledge,buttheknowledgetheygetisnotprofessional.ManyfriendshavebeenSomebadsexualknowledge,andpsychologicaldistressappears.Infact,themostcommonknowledgeaboutmasturbationisrelatedtomasturbation.Manyarticlesbelievethatmasturbationisharmfultopeoplebutnotbeneficial.Thishascausedmanyfriendstohaveanxietyandanxietyduetomasturbation.Depressedmood.Infact,propermasturbationisnotonlyharmlesstothebody,butalsohasapositiveimpactonphysicalandmentalhealth,whichcanreleaseone'ssexualdepressionandsexualneeds.Thisshowsthatitisveryimportanttounderstandthecorrectknowledgeofsex.
Relatedresearch
Someprofessionalresearchesonsexualknowledgeathomeandabroad:
1.Alwayschangingsexpartnerswillshortenlifespan
AFrenchstudyfoundthathavingmultipleorfrequentsexpartnerswillspeedupagingandshortenlifespanby4.7years.Becausechangingsexpartnersfrequentlycanendangerhearthealthandisnotconducivetobloodpressurestability.
2.Thebestcommunicationeffectis15minutesaftersex
Researchshowsthat15minutesaftersex,menandwomenhavethehighestdegreeofrecognitionandtoleranceforeachother.Seizethisopportunitytocommunicatewithhim(her),andmanyproblemswillbeeasilysolved.Ifthereisanymisunderstandingbetweenthemarriageandthecouplethatneedstobecommunicatedandexchanged,itisrecommendedtohavesexafter15minutes.
3.Itisnotsuitableforphysicalandmentalworkwithin1houraftersex.
Sexwillinhibittheactivityofthelogicalregionsofthebrain,speedupthebloodcirculationinthelowerbody,andmakethebrainappearTemporaryischemia,weakenedlogicalabilityandproblem-solvingability,sorest1houraftersexbeforedealingwithotherthings.
4.From6to7inthemorning,menarethemostsensitive
SexologistKamalKohuranafoundthatsexologistKamalKohuranafoundthatat6to7inthemorning.At7o'clock,themalebodyisthemostsensitiveandthesexualdesireisstronger.Becauseafteranight’srest,fatiguewasrestoredandmoreenergetic.Atthesametime,malehormonesaresecretedvigorously,anderectionsareharderandmoredurable.Iamrelativelyrelaxedpsychologically,andIammoreconfidentinmyownsexualabilities.Therefore,itisagoodchoicetowakeupinthemorningandbegentlewithyourlover.
5.At8o’clockintheevening,men’ssexualabilitiesarethemostunstable
At8o’clockintheeveningisthetimewhenmen’smalehormonesfluctuatethemost.Hewillfeeltiredandhislibidowilldecrease.Ifyouchoosetohavesexatthistime,youwillplayabnormallyinalllikelihood.
6.At10o’clockintheevening,womenaremostlikelytohavesexualfantasies
ExpertsfromHarvardUniversityMedicalSchoolintheUnitedStatesfoundthroughresearchthataround10o’clockintheevening,womenThecreativecellsofthebrainarethemostactive.Atthistime,theyaregoodatimagining,andmostofthefantasycontentisrelatedto"sex"and"love".Therefore,itisbestforamantogotobedbefore10o'clockandsharepassionwithher.
Definitionofsex
Sexisthesourceofhumanlifeandanindispensablepartofthewholelife.Regardlessofwhetherweactivelyparticipate,sexualdesireispartofourdailythoughtsandemotions.Itisrootedinourdreams,desires,fearsandfrustrations.
Forsomepeople,sexcontrolsthem,andtheyspendmostoftheirtimeandenergyonit;forothers,it’sduetoopportunityorpersonalchoice,Sexhasnosignificantroleintheirlives.However,formostofus,theattractivenessofsexdependsonourinnerneedsandchangesintheexternalsituation,sometimesstrongandsometimesweak.Ateachleveloflife,themanifestationsofsexaredifferent.
Fromabiologicallevel,theprimaryfunctionofsexisreproduction-givingbirthtochildren.Biologyprovidesamechanicalpictureofsexualfunctionandbehavior,withelementsrangingfromgenestogenitals.Sexualfunctionisregulatedbynervesandhormones,andismaintainedbybloodcirculation,muscles,andotherinternalsystems.
Fromapsychologicallevel,sexiscomposedofaseriesofbehaviorsandrelationshipsaimedatsexualpleasure,caringandotherneeds.
Fromasocialperspective,sexispervasiveinallaspectsoflife.Itmakesyourcultureuniqueandaddsflavortoitsart,history,law,andvalue.
Inaddition,sexalsoplaysalotofindirectrolesinyourlife.Itisalargepartofyourgenderidentity,anditisalsoalargepartofpeople'sexpectationsofyoursocialrole.Sexcanconveydominanceandhostility,itaffectsyourself-esteemandsocialstatus,andshapesyourlifeinotherways,frominfanttooldage.